Humiliation for Beginners

The BDSM lifestyle can be both fun and exciting to newcomers. It offers not just untraditional sex, but also unique and personalized love and trust to fit just about anyone’s personality or favorite kink or fetish. Newcomers to the BDSM lifestyle may take an interest in many different aspects of BDSM, but some of these people may not be fully aware of what they are getting themselves into until it is too late. Though it may seem difficult to believe for some traditional couples, many BDSM couples actively participate in various elements of humiliation. This humiliation can range from slight insults to public humiliation in or out of a scene. While one partner is humiliating the other, it may seem as though he or she does not care at all about the person being humiliated, but this could not be further from the truth. In fact, it usually takes a Domme who cares deeply about a sub to willingly humiliate him or her, especially when it is a private scene with just the two of them. If you are new to the BDSM lifestyle and have an interest in humiliation, whether you want to humiliate someone or be humiliated, you must learn as much as you can about the process so that you are fully sure you understand everything there is about humiliation in a BDSM setting.

Humiliating Someone

“If you enjoy humiliating someone, you are Dom”


If you are a new Domme, there are probably plenty of things you want to do to subs that are willing to play with you. However, if you do not have much experience with humiliation and you meet a sub that has an interest in humiliation, you may find that you are unsure what to do to give your sub what she needs. When it comes to humiliation, one of the first things you should consider is to start researching some of the best BDSM websites. You want to make sure that you stick with websites that have high ratings and reviews so that you are not using websites that contain incorrect or false information. You can check the comparison of different BDSM sites as well. We have the best BDSM sites reviewed and tested for your convenience. Go ahead take a look, visit thekinkyfactory.com

When looking over how to go about humiliating someone, you should pay attention to what your sub wants. Typically, some subs will express why or how they want to be humiliated. For example, if your sub requests that you humiliate her when she does something incorrectly, you can add humiliation in addition to her punishment. It is not unheard of, for instance, that a successful businesswoman begs to be called a failure or pathetic or some other insult during a scene. She may request to be treated as if she is someone of opposite status and your job as a Dom is to honor her requests when she deserves it.

Some of the best BDSM websites may also show you how to humiliate someone you are in an online BDSM relationship with. In fact, we think that humiliating someone online is much easier than humiliating them in person because many times it involves various psychological aspects of your sub. By this we mean that if you send a humiliating message to your sub, it requires that she be forced to only use her own thoughts and feelings to process. She is unable to rely on gestures and context clues and this allows her to take a simple message and make it a slightly or as heavily humiliating, as she wants it to be.

Being Humiliated

“Love being humiliated”


When you are checking out the ratings of various BDSM websites, make sure that even though the ratings are high, that the websites actually cater to your needs. Some BDSM websites have high ratings, but they my not be specifically what you are looking for. There are all types of BDSM websites out there and some of the information found on them varies depending who their target audience is. If you are new to humiliation, you might want to avoid those websites that feature Doms who are just experimenting with humiliation.

Instead, you should focus on finding an experienced Domme who highlights humiliation as one of his specialties. The reason you want to find an experienced Domme on one of the best BDSM websites is because you want someone who knows how to give out as little or as much humiliation as you need. A good experienced Domme will know how to start off with just a little humiliation and then build her way up to more depending on how you respond. Humiliation can be overwhelming to some new subs and it can really be stressful to your thought process if you experiment with a Domme who does not know much about it.

When you are posting your profile on some well-known BDSM dating sites, make sure that you mention that you have an interest in being humiliated. Believe it or not, some Dommes prefer not to humiliate subs and will have no interest in humiliating you, so be sure to post what your interests are in advance to reduce or prevent miscommunication between you and potential Dommes.

What Should You Expect as a Dom?

“Let her beg for more”


There are so many different elements to expect as Dom when it comes to humiliation. Your sub could beg you for more, or she could break down and cry at your words. However, as a Dom, you have the responsibility of constantly monitoring your subs behavior doing humiliation play.

Even if your sub says she enjoys humiliation, there are times when you may say things that can be triggering for her. For example, some words like “useless,” “fat,” “ugly,” and “worthless,” can trigger a negative emotional response. If you discover that your sub seems to have been triggered by a word that you have used during humiliation play, you should take a break from the scene and let her know how wonderful and perfect she is. Do not continue on and assume that she will get over it. This is dangerous to a sub’s mentality, and you are breaking the trust that she has in you. Many times a sub may learn to reclaim the words that she finds triggering, but this should be something that is done by her, not something that try to force on her. If you discover that your sub finds one or more words triggering, do not continue to use it.

What to Expect as a Sub?

“If you want to get humiliated only in private, then speak up”


The type of humiliation you receive as a sub depends on what you have told your Domme in advance. If you’ve told your Domme that you only want to be humiliated during a private scene between just the two of you, then you can expect her to never try to humiliate you in a public. If she attempts to, she is not following protocol and you need to let her know right away that you are not comfortable with her behavior.

Your Domme may insult you by calling you names such as “dog,” “slut,” “pig” and similar things like that. If you find that one or more of the things she calls you is triggering for you, you may have a strong emotional reaction to it. A good Domme will notice this reaction right away, but if she does not, you should not hesitate to let her know that you feel uncomfortable with something that she said or is doing.

3 Guaranteed Tips For Your Email To Be Read

We all do it with finesse. Who doesn’t clean up their emails when it is full of junks and spams? Even you do it, undeniably. Now, what if the email that has been unread and deleted was sent by you? With subject and purpose unclear, that email that you sent will be more or less subjected to the trash bin or left unread for some time. Meaningless emails like that of a template are more deleted than ever opened. If you want your email to be given the time it deserves, read along.

1. Be descriptive in your subject line. Always assume that your recipient has thousands of emails to read and clean up every day. They are very busy and would tend to forget the last conversation you had back then. Make your subject line straight to the point. Make sure you use keywords that would possibly make them remember anything that you have discussed. Keep your email brief, precise, direct and reasonable to catch the attention of the receiver. Brief emails are easier to respond. Just don’t forget to make it look professional for proper email etiquette.

2. Follow up with a phone call. What better way to get your email through than to call the recipient and notify that you have sent them an email discussing very important matters. If you are trying to get an appointment, it is better that you call up in advance to inform them that you are going to send them an email. Always ask for the validity of the email address that you have. There are some who have multiple accounts of mails and don’t regularly check it. If an attendant answers you, find out what is the best time for you to send the mail.

Increase Your Leads With Follow-Up Phone Calls

Increase Your Leads With Follow-Up Phone Calls

3. Make sure the recipient knows who you are. Include your name and the name of your company or brand name (in case you are selling something) to your email. This is for better recognition and credibility if ever there is a need to send an email repeatedly. This will assure the recipient that you are not a spam and ensure that you are a genuine person or seller. The content of your mail should not be too long considering that your recipient might have a very hectic schedule and would not read an email that consumes their time.

Folllow your phone calls

Folllow your phone calls

Most of the people won’t spend a single minute on an email especially when they don’t recognize the sender. That mail would mostly be trashed and or forever be unread. It is still best not to overwhelm your recipient with irrelevant emails. Send only emails when it is appropriate to send. It is the only way not to get your emails to the spam section. Of course, nobody wants to be fooled by so many online marketers today. Rest assured that you stick to your subject line; you can have the confidence that your email has been read for all your luck

Invest Your Tax Refunds in These 3 Stocks

Now that the tax season in America is almost over, many Americans will be able to receive an average of $3,000 as tax refund. That amount of money can pay your debts and bills for sure, but would it be better to invest this money on things that will pay you back many times over after a few years? And what better way to invest than to have it on reliable stocks? Here are 3 stocks you should consider investing your tax refunds in:

1. Exxon Mobil (NYSE:XOM)

Being a $400 billion company earning around $40 to $50 billion a year, Exxon operates globally by drilling for natural gas and oil and selling them around the world. Aside from being the world’s biggest oil and natural gas company, most mutual funds and pension groups have taken more than half of the shares of this company. This only shows that investing on Exxon will go a long way to pay for college or a house. Exxon Mobil’s stock price rose to 4.8% this 2013.

Tax investments should be part of asset allocation policy

Tax investments should be part of asset allocation policy

Another factor that makes it even better is that Exxon belongs to Dividend Aristocrat stocks. This means that it has continually increased its dividends for the last 25 years. Moreover, the longer you own its stock, the more the company pays you to stay longer. Sooner or later, you will find yourself earning the original stock price by the dividend the company gives you annually.

2. Wal-mart (NYSE: WMT)

As the world’s biggest retailer, even investment tycoons Warren Buffett and Peter Lynch have advised individual investors to invest on it. One of its major shareholders, Buffett, even bought more than a billion dollars worth of Wal-Mart stock the previous year.

Wal-Mart is so good in the retail sector because they sell products that don’t only have good quality but are also very affordable. This year, Wal-Mart’s stock price has risen to 6.95%. Furthermore, not only are you assured you are investing under the best investor in history, Wal-Mart is also a dividend aristocrat stock and pays about 2.6%, higher than the average dividend given by most companies.

3. AT&T (NYSE:T)

A phone company is still a great stock to invest in after all. As a global company that caters to 106 million mobile customers worldwide, it is a company with a bright future ahead of it especially with the LTE network and wireless connectivity innovations it has on its sleeve. Lynch has also invested in this company so you should feel confident about taking the risk.

Better Ways to Invest Your Tax Refund Money

Better Ways to Invest Your Tax Refund Money

Most of us believe that investing on stocks is only for millionaires who don’t know where to spend all their money, but this fact proves to be very untrue. Your tax refund can go a long way if you invest it in the right stocks. After a few years, you will gain so much that you’ll be happy you spent your tax refund on these stocks.

3 Best Fitness Apps That You Could Use

Getting in shape was made easy with the technology that we have today. If you have a smart phone, you will have your own virtual trainer. Most of the workout motivators are right in your pocket and good part is they’re all free. This small gadget will turn out to be you virtual trainer and cold save you from going to the gym.

Tons of apps are being offered which can be seen in different websites, but only few passed from professional fitness trainer. Here are some of the best apps that you could turn your smart phone into a virtual trainer:

1. OFFICE YOGA

Make your workspace into workout space; means you don’t need to leave your desk, for these apps has nine sets of yoga movements. It comes with pictures, text and audio. This will guide you step by step on yoga moves. This will overcome everyday ailments,

Office yoga is design for Android users, it was designed for office and it does relieve backpains, arthral and vertebra pains. And it can cure certain occupational disease. Images and instructions are provided, showing on how to do yoga. You ca do it wherever and whenever you like.

For safe weight loose

For safe weight loose

The following are the features:

  • Easy to learn office yoga, it comes in 9 sets posture packed

  • It boost your health and immunity

  • HD images and easy to follow detailed instruction

  • Functional pages added, for your benefits concerned

  • Tips application to all movements

  • User friendly

2. FITNESS BODY

It comes with more than 300 exercises with detailed information and animations, this is a unique fitness buddy that won’t leave you unsweat as they go for the burn. It also come with a paid version for upgrades (additional 1,400 exercise).

Free version already contains features and content. Compared to other paid fitness apps.

The following are the features:

  • Recommended by ESPN magazine!

  • 1700 plus unique exercise

  • 1000 plus HD videos

  • It has workout tracking, Quick and simple

  • Track your body weight and metrics

3. NIKE TRAINING CLUB

As Nike says “Just Do It”, with these apps you can get fast, flexible workouts from 15 to 45 minutes. It has audio guidance and video demos from top Nike trainers. Custom built and 90 comprehensive workouts. And it’s totally free.

The 100 custom built workouts will get you lean, toned and strong. Detailed instructions and audio support are included to give dynamic drills. It lets you choose a workout that fits your goal.

Nike Training Club

Nike Training Club

The following are the features:

  • 30 or 45 minutes of full body workout. And can select favorite workout as your Quick start.

  • A multi-directional drill was built to enhance strength.

  • Set you music and playlist for your workout moves.

Top 3 Mistakes You Must Not Overlook on Your Online Dating Habits

If you’ve been single for a while, you might feel the urge to try your luck through an online dating site. After all, many would say it is a great way to meet new people. Scores of happy couples have found true love through these online dating sites. However, these sites aren’t really fairy godmothers; you also have to do your share. Here are the top 3 mistakes that you should avoid in your online dating adventure:

Posting Unrealistic Photos

This is a mistake that is common to both men and women who frequent these online dating sites. In the interest of creating interest, a lot of people will post slimmer and fitter pictures of them from years ago. Others, heavily photoshopped. However, this is a big no-no. Even if you manage to snag a date with the most attractive member of your idealized gender, you will have to deal with the fact that he or she will see your current appearance. At best the date goes somewhat badly. But come on, any hope of a second date will be flushed down the toilet. No lasting relationships after all, begin with deception.

Reasons You’re Not Getting Hired6

Reasons You’re Not Getting Hired

Being a “Douche”

Disclaimer, douche is in no way limited to members of the male sex of the human species who have overinflated egos coupled with ridiculously low levels of intelligence. It also applies to women who are excessively haughty and overflowing with self-absorbed bitchiness or rudeness.

Despite the bandwagon implication that these sorts of people will be able to get whoever it is that they set their sights on, it really isn’t true. People who fall into the trap of trying to come off as “douchey” only end up seeming, douchey. Not only is it a huge turn off but it also drastically lowers the chance of actually finding a genuine relationship through the online dating sphere.

Being Dishonest

And yes we have briefly touched on this topic above. Being dishonest means putting down inaccurate information on your profile as well as lying when talking with prospects while in online dating sites. This tactic will only pay-off short term if it does at all.

Also, please do yourself a favor and read the profile of the person you’re trying to chat with. A forty seven year old divorcee trying to pull the moves on a thirty year old who specified wanting to meet people in the age group of 25-35 is pretty much assured of screwing up your chances sooner or later. That and the fact that it’ll give the person you’re talking to an undue headache because you decided to deceive him or her. At the end of the day, if your conversations online end up positive, your actual meeting will definitely lead to truths you’ve been hiding to surface. So please don’t bother screwing yourself over and just be honest.

Deal With Dishonesty in a Relationship

Deal With Dishonesty in a Relationship

Well there are infinitely many ways to score relationship gold and mess up on the internet dating scene. Just remember to avoid these three major relationship mistakes that so many people have made. It’ll do you good. Keep the tips above in mind and before you know it, you’ll have a successful relationship on your hands.

Best science app for kids

You can do many things that you can in your smartphone. You can watch a movie in your smartphone at the same time stream videos in the internet. You can even take down notes and capture pictures. You can stalk your favorite celebrity right in your own smartphone. There are also thousands of app that you can download for free. In fact, learning is limitless when you download educational apps to your iPad. Listed below are some of the apps that can benefit your child in terms of learning of different subjects that they study in school.

English and Language Arts

These are the apps that can be downloaded to your iPad. When kids play these apps they will be able to master English regardless of their grade levels. These will help them study classic literature, to improve their grammar skills. If they don’t know how to read yet, these can help them to read and write. The app How Rocket Learned To Read will help the students to identify letters of the alphabet and later on to read. Shakespeare in Bits – Romeo and Juliet will help them appreciate literature specifically literary pieces. Grammar Up can help them learn and master grammar.

educational apps for school kids

educational apps for school kids

Mathematics and Counting

Kids usually love learning when they are enjoy at the same time. Through these apps they can conquer statistics, solve different algebraic equations, master the multiplication process and learn to identify numbers. At the same time they’ll learn more because these apps are fun, interactive and engaging. MathBoard is a popular iPad app that will give kids custom drills and quizzes. They’ll also love to Math Bingo because they play bingo and learn math at the same time. Wolfram Algebra Course Assistant makes algebraic equations easier to learn because of the colorful presentation. Learning Math is fun after all!

Science

With these iPad apps, your kids can explore the world and learn how things work. They can learn more about astronomy, anatomy, chemistry, physics, biology and many more. On top of that, these apps can help them download guides that can be useful in their next science trip. Britannica Kids: Volcanoes for example will teach kids everything about volcanoes. Monster Anatomy introduces kids to the different parts of the body while Star Walk takes the children to the skies where they can learn all about satellites, constellations and stars.

Best science app for kids

Best science app for kids

Geography and History

If you want to teach kids geography and history, you can teach them well by downloading these apps to your iPad. You can teach them learn the history about the history of the earth and how it came to be. Learn the history starting from the ancient times up to the present day. You kids will surely love relevant quotations, play historical games, nice graphics and historical maps and documents. Maps of the World: History will show you maps of the world throughout history. If you want to prepare for a U.S. History Exam, the AP U.S. History 5 Steps to a 5 will you pass this exam.